tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-52972580852011680832024-03-05T13:39:30.062+00:00Life In StagesEverything in LIFE happens in Stages, no matter how big, small, fast, slow etc. Why don't YOU tag along and lets discover and discuss each STAGE together. xoxoDaughter of Her Kinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13153158836293987110noreply@blogger.comBlogger133125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5297258085201168083.post-18562589893410941572020-07-01T21:49:00.003+01:002020-07-01T21:52:04.221+01:00Welcome Back!!!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Hello Beautiful People,<br />
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How's everyone doing?<br />
I hope we are all well and alive.....<br />
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I am back!!<br />
I intend to be back for good with ideas on how to revamp my blog, improve the look and feel of the website.<br />
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I have been missing in action for almost six years!!<br />
WOW!<br />
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I have too much experience and stories to tell.<br />
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Honestly, you do not want to miss this.<br />
Watch the space!!!<br />
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Oh how I have missed blogging :).<br />
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Please stay connected. xxx<br />
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Daughter of Her Kinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13153158836293987110noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5297258085201168083.post-51486117546808969462015-10-18T21:55:00.003+01:002015-10-18T21:55:58.442+01:00You will OVERCOME!!!! My New YT Channel<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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I hope you had a FAB Week/end .<br />
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Its SUNDAY!!!<br />
Church was fab... We talked about God coming through. Title was 'God cannot FAIL'. I needed that.<br />
I have been through many challenges this year and there were many times I felt God was not there or was not listening to me.<br />
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I know he will empower my faith and I promise to testify to his NAME.<br />
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I have done another amazing video.<br />
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Pls watch, share, like and become a subbie.<br />
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Have a blessed week.<br />
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xoxoxo<br />
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Daughter of Her Kinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13153158836293987110noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5297258085201168083.post-51157406920586334542015-10-11T22:42:00.004+01:002015-10-11T22:42:51.976+01:00New on my YT chanel - No to Abuse!!!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hello Beautiful People,<br />
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I hope you have all had a lovely week/end so far...<br />
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Nobody wants a weekend to end. I wonder who invented 2 days for weekend only, it should be 3 days or 4 days maximum.<br />
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Ok, as promised I intend to blog but it would primarily a display of my vlog.<br />
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In this episode, I discuss ABUSE in the best way I know how to.<br />
I believe as individuals no matter the excuses, the power is definitely ours.<br />
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In this video, I encourage us women to spot the signs and do what is necessary to save our sanity.<br />
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Please watch, share and become a subbie for more.. :)<br />
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Thank you.<br />
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Have a super awesome week. muah.<br />
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Daughter of Her Kinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13153158836293987110noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5297258085201168083.post-24789886546621373772015-09-09T18:42:00.003+01:002015-09-09T18:45:34.907+01:00New Post: Mid Week Love<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Yes you, how are you and how are you feeling today?<br />
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I hope you are all well and blessed.</div>
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I thought I share abit of love with you.... Yes!</div>
I am excited to be blogging. Yay!<br />
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So very quickly, I think I owe you some explanation regarding my return to Blogsville. I plan to do a separate post on that soon.<br />
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I hope to blog either on Thursday/Saturday/ Sunday(I have three days to choose from Yippie).<br />
This would allow me to be more organised and accountable.<br />
No, I want to avoid writing long pages of posts as I did in the past. *rolls eyes*<br />
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Self Love: What do you know by self love? How do you apply it and how to continually experience it.<br />
Please watch the video to find out and lets 'muse' together.<br />
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I do plan to do more series to this.<br />
Please let me know what you think :)<br />
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Don't forget to check out my YT video guys. You will be blessed.</div>
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Thanks to <a href="http://www.thenitty-gritty.com/2015/09/the-credit-life.html" target="_blank">Ibahde</a> for the lovely comment on my YT channel you are *star* mucho love.</div>
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Daughter of Her Kinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13153158836293987110noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5297258085201168083.post-5915343908201114612015-09-07T00:19:00.001+01:002015-09-07T00:31:34.771+01:00**Happy September** Whoot Whoot<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hello Fab People,<br />
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Thank you for visiting.
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I trust we are all well and doing great.<br />
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I have been secretly reading blogs and maybe not commenting but reading definitely.<br />
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Congratulations to you all for the milestones and ofcourse Sykik on the birth of her son.<br />
How *AMAZING* is our God. I believe motherhood is treating you well. May you give birth to additional twins. Amen.<br />
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I am still here and I miss blogging. Goodness me I did not realise how much I missed the blogsville family.<br />
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I suffered all sorts last year but I am glad to be better and much better than before.<br />
So here is me doing my videos and hoping to blog more.<br />
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As promised I mentioned in the past I would start my videos... Yay, its finally here. I must admit I practiced on FB for at least a year.<br />
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Please show your support and love....<br />
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Thank you again to everyone who has checked up on :). x<br />
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Daughter of Her Kinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13153158836293987110noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5297258085201168083.post-70306968709740011192014-09-27T20:41:00.001+01:002014-09-27T21:11:37.251+01:00Hello!!!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Trust we are all doing GREAT!!<br />
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Wow, I have been gone for so long it does not feel like it. I am just missing from the world of blogsville.<br />
I feel like I have left the community I used to be so part of.<br />
Funny enough, I do still think about the people I got acquainted with Tolu, Atiola, Ibahde, Sykik and many more.<br />
I have decided that at some point this year, it is most likely this blog will be closing down.<br />
I do plan to start something new perhaps have a YouTube channel which I plan to link below we will see.I don't want to start something and then leave it halfway etc I would want to start and ensure I see through.<br />
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This blog was born out of a reason that some of you may know and now I believe unfortunately 'Life In Stages' will be closing off. I feel so sad saying this but it is the sheer truth.<br />
I have been praying and hoping for the fire to come back but it feels as though am forcing myself.<br />
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I rather face the tune than keep running away.<br />
I have come to accept this is the stage where my blog will stop for NOW!! It is too scary.<br />
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In the mean time, I have pictures to share.<br />
My natural hair journey is still going well and I have reached one year mark! Whoopie<br />
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Looking Smoking HOT! If I must say so..lol. Makeup by my Sis AramakeupandStudious</div>
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Highlight this year so far! Driving a car Y'all lol (It is the Lord's doing)</div>
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Going to Notting Hill Carnival for the first time!</div>
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Attending one of my friend's wedding</div>
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Going to Nigeria after plentyplenty years!</div>
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Getting a promotion (by faith oo)</div>
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I do believe there will be many more. I plan to share by his grace. Birthday is coming up Whoop Whoop!<br />
I plan to share that.<br />
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I hope you are all blessed.<br />
I miss you all so much you are in my prayers. xoxoxox</div>
Daughter of Her Kinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13153158836293987110noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5297258085201168083.post-88917623664380987242014-05-22T22:01:00.002+01:002014-05-24T14:25:15.620+01:00Natural hair journey so far....<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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I am here again o. Well feeling motivated.</div>
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Thank you all for the loving comments including the private emails greatly appreciated. Muahh. </div>
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After watching this Youtube(I will include the video below). I felt motivated to actually update.</div>
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I do believe am in the process of diagnosing my problems yes o or maybe issues.</div>
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I am far too lazy, always giving excuses and way too much of a thinker(thinker in a sense that I don't get up and do but sit and over analyse). Watching the video did not only enlighten me but has helped me to come back to reality(I need to constantly remind myself to live in the now and not future).</div>
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At some point, I got to the stage where I felt like I no longer want to blog and that I had nothing to offer anymore.I felt that I started this blog because I was hurting at the time and blogsville was my family. Having a blog should be more of a purpose isn't it?</div>
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We will delve deep some other time.</div>
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Journey on my natural hair so far.</div>
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Next month I will be one year Yippee!!!</div>
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Please indulge in the pics below.</div>
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My hair can finally do small puffs.Yay! April/May measurements.</div>
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March/April pics. All twists outs.</div>
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Bantu knots first attempt. Not bad.</div>
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Results! And no am not pouting lol only mocking around.</div>
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Random. If you look closely I was defo pouting (posh though) lol. x</div>
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Daughter of Her Kinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13153158836293987110noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5297258085201168083.post-91777027187419976492014-05-06T21:10:00.000+01:002014-05-07T21:35:33.118+01:00Paying a TRIBUTE!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hello Everyone,<br />
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How are we?<br />
I trust we are all well and buzzing.<br />
Its been forever and a day. lol.<br />
I can't apologise enough but I know by now alot of you might have given up on me so...<br />
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I am here to pay a tribute to someone that means alot to my Mum.<br />
My Mum is currently mourning the loss of a special person that she wished it was not too soon.<br />
She lost her dearest Dad on the early hours of May the 5th.<br />
I will not forget the piercing sound I heard during my morning devotion. I knew immediately it had something to do with her Dad.<br />
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I recall going to see her after I came back from church on Sunday and she looked sad.<br />
I asked her why she was sad, she told me about her worries.<br />
You see, her dad had been sick for a while infact a long while but this time it looked more serious than ever before.<br />
She insisted over and over again that she didn't want him to die now to which I responded, he is 87 would have been 88 in July, he has achieved and done well for himself. She insisted she wanted him to live to become a centenarian that her spirit didn't want him to die yet. I smiled and said, she shouldn't worry but be proud of him. Its funny how she was feeling weird and the very next day she got the call that he had passed away.<br />
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She was hurt and still is.<br />
Though I did not have a personal relationship with him, Mum did and she will miss him dearly.<br />
My memory of him was of a calm person, Mum shares a striking resemblance with her Dad that does make Mum happy. :)<br />
Regardless whether I had a relationship with him or not am paying this tribute to him because he was amongst the key people that shaped my Mum's destiny and contributed to who she is today.<br />
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She is ever so thankful for the good education Dad gave her which helped her alot.<br />
He was also a prominent figure to an extent and did his bit maybe if he had more chance he would have done even more.<br />
So to Grandad, I hope your legacy carries on through your children, children and children.<br />
You did your part and I can only pray that you meet with God.<br />
Stay blessed and Rest In Peace.<br />
I am grateful to come through a lineage of a an excellent worker like you.<br />
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Love<br />
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Daughter of Her Kinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13153158836293987110noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5297258085201168083.post-14649195015942463282014-03-14T23:45:00.000+00:002014-03-14T23:45:10.325+00:00*Still Here*<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hello Ladies and Gents,<br />
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Its been like forever but am still here yep a lot of things little things here and there but my blog is still part of my "To Do List". I do envy bloggers that are solely committed to blogging that is 'super cool' pls keep going strong guys and inspiring us the "so called bloggers" lol.<br />
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The month February has been busy in a way, concentrated more on the cake business. I also went to Netherlands on nolls to see my sis who was there at the time. It was fun and alright sha. Friendly people and organised too.<br />
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I have pictures of hair update etc that I intended to share but I quickly thought it would be great to say hello. Its been foreverrrrr..<br />
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Let me leave you with a pic of my swaggerlicious self lol and a cute video.<br />
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Daughter of Her Kinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13153158836293987110noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5297258085201168083.post-70289725074331686592014-01-28T19:29:00.000+00:002014-01-28T19:59:04.174+00:00Peek a "BOO"<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hello Sweet people,<br />
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Its been a while.<br />
I trust you all are well.<br />
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I know I was suppose to update ages ago but I couldn't log in when I tried but its all sorted out now.<br />
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I have been busy with life, the thinking part, the reflecting and the not so good side of it at the same time I have been having fun. I guess it balances out in a way.<br />
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I got a new DLSR Nikon 3100. Whoop Whoop.<br />
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I just wanted to say hello really and update on my TWA. Its growing o. :)<br />
Please check out the pics below. x<br />
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I think twist out is perfect for any occasion. I rocked "twist out" on my birthday.<br />
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Daughter of Her Kinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13153158836293987110noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5297258085201168083.post-30111606387019195432014-01-01T14:32:00.002+00:002014-01-04T16:30:21.465+00:00HAPPY 2014!!! WHOOP<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hello Everyone,<br />
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HAPPY NEW YEAR. Whoop whoop.<br />
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I trust we had an awesome Christmas. YAY.<br />
Thank God it went well.<br />
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I myself wasn't feeling well. Your dearest was sick with fever and cold. The virus during the winter month kia.<br />
I only just got better with mild coughs. I am grateful it was not worse than this but it was bad in that I could not do things myself. My sister who very rarely cooks, cooked and fed me my breakfast to show I unwell I was.<br />
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I am better and am thankful for the grace to do things myself. My prayer is that healing mercies will find many of us that desire it.<br />
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I hope this year will be BIGGER, BETTER AND ofcourse we ACCOMPLISH MORE.<br />
Personally, I am motivated to accomplish plenty things this year including travelling, meeting new people, going to new places, staying busy, networking etc.<br />
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There is a world bigger than my four corner walls and I want to EXPLORE IT.<br />
I hope to be more PROACTIVE, push myself without being held back by ANYTHING.<br />
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I hope we all inspired to keep going and not look back.<br />
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Forget regrets, learn from the mistakes and believe you will even accomplish more than you had anticipated.<br />
By the end of 2014 I just want to roll on the floor with thanksgiving, happiness and joy.<br />
I want to feel content and the fire to keep going.<br />
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My sisters and brothers, we will make it in 2014.<br />
Lets not stop encouraging each other but elevate each other.<br />
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By the way, Happy New Year to Ibahde, NiajaMum in London, Unveiling Gold and many more beautiful bloggers that have either left or simply have not updated in a longgg while.<br />
You are missed. Stay blessed.<br />
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Lots love from yours and only.<br />
xxx<br />
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Daughter of Her Kinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13153158836293987110noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5297258085201168083.post-68938144278099490972013-12-25T01:10:00.006+00:002013-12-25T01:13:35.988+00:00ITS CHRISTMAS.. WHOOP WHOOP.<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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WOW 2013 Christmas is here o. Can you believe it?</div>
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I can't. It came so fast.</div>
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I am grateful for life and the grace to celebrate in good health with my family and love ones.</div>
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JESUS is the reason for the season but sometimes it gets lost in the midst of everything, infact it mostly lost.</div>
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I am still finding my through it all.</div>
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From me to your love ones.<br />
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Daughter of Her Kinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13153158836293987110noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5297258085201168083.post-58038679861020456422013-12-13T19:46:00.001+00:002013-12-14T00:42:48.708+00:00**Feeling Good**<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hello People,<br />
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I am so blog inspired and motivated.<br />
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I will be talking motivational today. Oh yeah. *winks*<br />
Please you are welcome to share with your friends.<br />
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Feeling good: what is this all about and why is it important?<br />
Well honey, only you can answer the question correctly but pls hear what I have to say.<br />
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The idea of feeling good for me basically means choosing to stay positive, being positive and allowing my inner beauty i.e. the burst of energy that resides inside to radiate outside triumphing over any negativity around me. In a nutshell, being confident and loving it.<br />
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I am totally a "feel good" kind of person in that I don't care at all for other people's opinion emphasis placed on the bad ones. I am a happy go lucky child and one thing am grateful for is that I can be oblivious to certain things. I don't know why but sometimes my mind just does not acknowledge the meanest, saddest or insulting things some people chose to say or do. I sometimes notice much later that the person just said something rude but in that point in time I don't hear or see it. I am glad am that way in fact I pray to continue to stay that way because I sure do not want anyone from anywhere to feel they can open their mouth and rain in my parade. Constructive criticism yes am open to and other good remarks but constant negativity and all sorts No, I am not open to it.<br />
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Why? what point is it that I abhor or indulge in such talks especially when the rationale is absolutely dumb. For instance, I am not a shy person noo and am quite happy to dance my socks away on the dance floor although to some people it looks odd or not posh or whatever etc. The truth is you can't cringe for me because at that point in time am having the ultimate fun ever!!!.<br />
I recall a situation at a wedding on the dance floor, doing my famous moves lol, my friend tried to tell me to tone it down, hahaha bless her she was embarrassed for me. I turned to her and just completely carried on dancing.<br />
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Also with my natural hair, I had alot of I can't believe you cut your hair, people that don't talk to me on a normal day sat me down etc oo this ooo that. I laughed it off, I didn't care and I rocked it with confidence. In fact one of my besties always dizzes naturals lol, that we look like village girls etc. I told her to wait till she sees me. I look funky o, village has nothing on me. She was wowed plus I rocked it with so much love.<br />
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The point of the illustration goes to show that I can't be tamed and I don't want to be tamed. There will come a time in my life maybe I will feel somehow but until then allow me o.<br />
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I also think part of feeling good is being happy, like appreciating life, appreciating you and be full of it. In my old workplace, they loved my enthusiasm to constantly want to do things. It is part of feel good. I like using my initiative to help out without expecting back although it is only courtesy to be grateful. I think its a prayer point worth asking God, "help me to do things and be kind without thinking or expecting anything back".<br />
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In a nutshell, I am a feel good person it shows in all part of me. I am always upbeat, optimistic and whether you know me personally or you don't you will always feel it somehow. I don't like to hold myself back mentally because I have only one life to live besides once I get past a certain age I can't wish it back.<br />
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2014 by his grace will be one of the best UPBEAT year. I have alot of desires to accomplish but importantly I want to be inspired and inspire others.We will inspire each other.<br />
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Live, Love and ROCK.<br />
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Jesus best boo. Nobody shouldn't tell me Jesus didn't have fun say what? Jesus traveled saw and met different people so I mean CAMon.. lol.<br />
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P.S. Fun does not mean self damage or doing things that are harmful to both yourself and others. xxx<br />
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Bad boy Marble cake. lol. 1st attempt. x<br />
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Daughter of Her Kinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13153158836293987110noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5297258085201168083.post-88911003224878163802013-12-11T03:09:00.000+00:002013-12-13T20:11:39.356+00:00Lovingly loving NATURAL. *smiles*<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hello People,<br />
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I trust we are doing "schemazing" Nicole on x factor. lol. x<br />
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I have been on this natural hair journey for close to seven months now I believe. Big chopped in July click <a href="http://lifeinstagesdoz.blogspot.co.uk/2013/06/big-chop.html" target="_blank">here</a>.<br />
I can't emphasis or express how I am my loving natural hair and how it compliments my features.<br />
I didn't think I would love it this much but I LOVE MY HAIR. I am in love with it.<br />
I just love the journey and the relationship am having with it.<br />
Its supercool.<br />
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I am excited to share my hair regime and pictures so far: </div>
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My regime is simple I use less products on my hair.</div>
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I usually deep condition weekly.</div>
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Loads of water and cold water to seal the moisture.(My hair loves cold water).</div>
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I find my hair does not like home made remedies like apple vinegar and bicarbonate soda (my Sis and Mum use them). I experience more hair sheds/breakage when I use them.</div>
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I like the avocado deep conditioner which I think my hair needs yet again I experience more hair sheds too.I try to minimise usage to 2-3 weeks.</div>
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My hair does however used to like egg mayonnaise even when it was relaxed but I am not sure about now? Egg mayonnaise is still my go to deep conditioner. My relaxed and shorter natural hair thrived in it.</div>
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I do plan to try something I did before which is only based on water. I will try it again couple of times and hopefully get to share the experience.</div>
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My hair loves Shea butter, castor oil, almond oil, coconut oil etc. </div>
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I got some raw Shea butter from Niaj, nothing beats the raw ones which I mix with other oils. </div>
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If you didn't know by now lol, taking pictures and posing for the camera is one of my favourite things. I just love it.<br />
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Daughter of Her Kinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13153158836293987110noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5297258085201168083.post-90504896883452415002013-12-08T01:21:00.001+00:002013-12-08T01:21:19.682+00:00'Closure' What about it?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hello Boo,<br />
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I trust we are all well and shining bright like a diamond. I pray God's protection will continually be upon us and our family members..xxx<br />
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This topic is actually an interesting one. Ok, I read a post on Bella Niaja lol o, see my life anyway please click <a href="http://www.bellanaija.com/2013/12/05/are-we-dating-or-not-a-bn-reader-shares-her-story/" target="_blank">here</a>.The post is not about the BN topic itself per say, its more of ideas on how people view relationships, break ups etc.<br />
I know and I respect we all have varied opinions, advice and solutions to dealing with break ups and situations. I know some of us offer what is best for us but I tend to choose solutions that has the potential to solve a situation in some way and provide healing of some sort.<br />
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I am not sure if you are familiar with the term 'closure' I think some of us might be. It generally means an act of closing something according to Google web. My interpretation, it means the purpose of finding answers that will provide an insight or possible solution to a problem. In the context of a break -up of any kind, some people desire closure to help them with unanswered answers or putting puzzles together to provide clarity or help them move on etc. But I often wonder if truly some of us need this so called "closure" as some people might suggest. I can't help but think that "closure" will do nothing but even create more puzzles than before depending on the situation, frame of mind and individual.<br />
If an individual is seeking closure it means the relationship was never real from the start because if it was real then it is only imperative, normal, noble and just for both parties or the other to explain why the relationship is coming to an end. Remember a relationship might be real to you but not to the other person or better still be real to both parties but convicted in one more than the other or attached to one more than the other. For example, I could be dating a dude but have my guards up and he could however think am all for it which I am but totally one leg in and one leg out. You get my drift.<br />
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I think generally it is human nature to be in the know, seek answers, justify reasons and understand why this happened and why it is not happening etc. The harsh truth is some of us will never be in the know and the not knowing can actually be a good thing depending on the severity of the situation and how you manipulate the situation.<br />
I think asking for a closure in dealing with a break up when the other person has clearly moved on or show the signs that they want to move on is simply a bad idea. When some people decide to move on, they totally block out the past and intimate details and completely switch off (unfortunately that is the harsh truth). Now, asking such person to provide closure would mean they should go back to the past and dig out what they have buried which quite frankly some people will not do as they don't see the point or want to go through the emotions.<br />
On the other hand, the closure one is seeking might be an opportunity to start another episode of unnecessary arguments and disagreements that does nothing but show more holes and more tragedy especially when you find out the true intentions of the person was unfair and conniving? It might just make it even worse in my opinion.<br />
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How about, if the other party has nothing to disclose I mean nothing significant to bring to the closure. For example the post on Bella Niaja which is about a lady who fell for a man with a shady attitude. The "shady" dude had a motive and whatever it was he exhibited some of it, it is now up to the woman to decide whether or not she will use it as a cue or simply live in cuckoo land and disregard major evidence. In the case of a closure as suggested by a commentator what should the "shady" guy say? What will be his reason or reasons? To top it off he is now married. Will the closure actually help her or make a difference?<br />
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Besides, I believe if a break up occurs in a loveless, selfish and crap relationship then closure is pointless. Amazing opportunity to simply thank God that your life will take better form. In a loving, sweet and genuine relationships (though I wonder why they should be break-ups), then I guess a closure would make more sense but wait was it ever truly genuine from both parties or did it just appear that way? Also the questions need to be asked? Why the closure and what will it do? The truth is, people that hold back info/cover things up in the relationship will never ever ever be open in a closure. Say what? he/she was never 100% authentic in the relationship so now that it has ended, you are concerning yourself with closure?. Maybe they will be real to themselves but it takes maturity, a level of self journey, insight and a level of confidence to be real to yourself and to others.<br />
In any case, whatever we chose to do should be traced back to our motive, because the purpose of knowing your motives will help determine whether this a closure is a better option or not.<br />
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I was in a relationship that I thought was great, loving etc etc until he dropped the bombshell and for a long time a part of me wanted to see him and ask him loads of questions as to why this happened or why it didn't happen etc. The questions and puzzles swam around in my head but the one question remained will it change anything? Will it change the fact that you two are no longer together, will it change the fact that you were highly upset and it affected your grades etc, what will it change and what will it do for you per say? That when I realised that I didn't quite get it yet and that was why I needed to go on this journey. To understand that stuff happen and stuff will happen but you do what you do, you learn from it, forgive yourself and move on from that situation with a positive outlook and approach.<br />
What is much better? a closure that does nothing but troubles you in comparison to simply accepting it was to be because no mattter how you try with closure it is still a learning process, you are to learn from it and become stronger.<br />
Maybe in the case of a cheating spouse, I get having a closure but am not sure if it is the other spouse that should ask for it or the person should simply confess and from there, open and honest communication should take place.<br />
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My point is, if you desire a closure be sure you have clear motives behind it and you understand them and think clearly whether or not it will actually make a difference?<br />
I don't care about closures or encourage them. I encourage communication and clarity if it permits but closure I don't know.<br />
Depending on the situation i.e. if it was a long term relationship and circumstances of the relationship then maybe closure can be demanding but be aware it might even leave a more bitter taste in your mouth.<br />
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I am done now. lol.<br />
As always your opinions, thoughts, ideas etc are most welcome.<br />
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Thank you for reading. Be blessed.<br />
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Dust yourself and try again. Aliyah x<br />
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Daughter of Her Kinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13153158836293987110noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5297258085201168083.post-19029368703965618832013-12-03T18:20:00.000+00:002013-12-03T21:55:48.157+00:00Abortion-Get Rid Off. An inspired post<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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I trust we are all well and prepping for Christmas etc. I pray all our dreams that are yet to come true will do so. I also pray we will have a pain free, catastrophe free, accidents free, bombing free Christmas season. Amen.<br />
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This post was inspired by a comment I read on Bella Niaja click <a href="http://www.bellanaija.com/2013/11/28/bn-hot-topic-would-you-datemarry-someone-who-has-a-child/" target="_blank">here</a> for the post.Click <a href="http://www.bellanaija.com/2013/11/28/bn-hot-topic-would-you-datemarry-someone-who-has-a-child/#comment-617646" target="_blank">here</a> for the comments and I also commented.<br />
I planned to upload a different topic but I had to do this.<br />
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To be honest, the topic on abortion is a strange one, maybe complex and touchy subject for some. I have watched various documentaries on it and seen various advocates for and against it. In a nutshell, I have never really had a view on it other than I won't advocate it and I certainly will not encourage it. I have always thought that the only person that could make the decision most times is the woman. Her decision is based on her principles and core values.<br />
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However, I do not accept, or think it is right aside for medical reasons that can put both mother and child into jeopardy even with that (I will encourage to rely on faith). It hurt when I read the comment on Bella Naija about a woman that had an abortion because her hubby encouraged her to and now she is struggling to birth and has had several miscarriages.<br />
Personally, I might be naive o, I do not accept a man/bf/husband etc that has impregnated another woman to tell her to "GET RID OFF" I don't care what the excuses, motives, situations, ideologies whatever it is but abortion should be the last result aside from medical complications. I think anyone that suggests that is rude, selfish, wicked and EVIL. Why do you say such thing?<br />
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My reasons, if they had aborted the person in question due to his/her parental circumstances will they be here? Nope. They wont. so why then would you deny someone else the opportunity?<br />
To make matters worse, I hate it when it is married men that are telling their wives to abort the babies, I don't care if you are wretched and living from mouth to mouth, if you don't want to have any more babies (do family planning) or cut your loins which will not be considered. I even hate it more when married men tell their wives that are preggo for the first time to get rid off of the child? Why? Why?<br />
Children are blessings in the very least if your partner says that to you and lists all the possible reasons as not to keep the baby, then they have failed you YES, they have failed in their role as a man to protect, assure, support, encourage and be bold. They have failed to understand and comprehend the bigger vision. They have failed to consider the vows appropriately, they have failed to consider the blessings that is yet to come through this child above all they have failed to comprehend the power of their own seed that has allowed to possibly father a child where others have tried to no avail even with medical and all.<br />
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For such men, I can only pity them and their myopic mind.I hate to see women put themselves through such agony and say they are doing it for love...? What? Love? where is the love in that? The love for the guy or the love for your own selfish reasons? or love for the unborn child? I stress that if love was ever involved in the relationship from the beginning then being pregnant under any conditions just raises/up the game to even stretch yourself and become less selfish and more responsible with the ability to love endlessly without waiting for the other. Yes, a child born into love will know from the very first day it ran and joined the ovaries lol.<br />
I know there are deeper issues like rape, unwanted situations e.g. cheating etc that might have allowed such situation but again any decision to which especially rape and medical reasons I will totally respect the need for the person to do as they wish. In fact I totally respect any decision be none medical I as I have stated above. I just do not like it when the lady carrying the child is coerced into abortion against her will but I guess there are reasons behind it all.<br />
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All I am saying is, as a woman with a choice, be careful about the risks you are taking with getting rid off the pregnancy as advised by your spouse or family members/friends. Think carefully, for every action there is a consequence. I also know some people who have had an abortion in the past are still struggling years on to bear a child of their own plus heard a lot of stories too. They have been advised wrongly and are regretting their actions.<br />
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So please, if anything consider the various options available to you.<br />
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P.S. Did I tell you that Dad told Mum to get rid off me? His excuse he didn't have money.. what??<br />
I am glad Mum didn't cos boy I wont be here will I? and above everything she will still be disappointed because it wasn't like he was ready to love her and be there?<br />
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If people around you are doing it. THINK TWICE.<br />
My best advice as ever, if you are not ready for the consequences don't involve SEX. Once you start having then be open minded to all sorts.<br />
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I guess this post was more of a reprimanding one lol. Its all love. x<br />
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Thanks for reading and visiting.<br />
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Daughter of Her Kinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13153158836293987110noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5297258085201168083.post-25201275150335360772013-11-10T01:29:00.001+00:002013-11-10T01:31:31.834+00:00 Going back to my value and believe system<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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I trust we are well.<br />
I am thankful to all the comments I had on my last post *so sweet*. I am grateful for everything including the opportunity to blog. x<br />
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Each and every individual has a different value system and by that I mean what we are truly guided by e.g. our core unshakable principles which can be influenced by a variety of sources. The other thing also is we all have different believe system i.e. what we hold onto whether its spiritual,mental, physical etc. I think its almost the same thing but they are slightly different. What I mean by value system is what governs your principles, actions and state of mind. For example,your principle might include zero tolerance for cheating. That means you don't like cheating and you don't cheat others in essence you are fair so it reflects in your actions that means you avoid that path at all costs.The believe system is what governs your motives, ideologies and views etc. For example, to accept its wrong to lie and there is a punishment for it etc. Having said that, some of our values and believe system might be similar in some situations yet again different because the measure we all use to judge situations will most certainly be different to others. Like me, I don't mind returning clothes if I wore it once even if I have danced in it which I have done once btw ages ago cos I thought I wont need it anymore but my sister on the other hand is totally against it which some of us will agree, yes I see her point and where she is coming from but I at the time I was in different etc. Probably won't return something have worn anymore except in extreme cases. Anyways you get the gist. <br />
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So what does this mean and why am I writing about this jargon philosophy etc. This is because I came to a recent understanding which I will admit is work in progress.<br />
As an individual like some of us might tell, am a positive person, as in I try as much as possible to dwell on the good things not the bad but if anything learn from it. It might appear that my world is rosy sometimes based on what I share on this blog but the truth is my world is full of all sorts but its mostly full of roses because I chose for it to be that way. Since, I can remember I have always being positive and incredibly optimistic you can't beat my optimism, an ex of mine used to tell me I had a gift of faith. Anyhoo, there have been situations and times where I am trusting for something although I couldn't see it but I believed and professed what I wanted despite all the negatives, including the highs and lows and to the glory of God I do have testimonies out of it. As long as I don't a)give into doubt because it comes in leaps and bounds b)I keep seeing and believing in that very thing I want and working towards it making sure my motives are genuine. Its fair to admit that not everything works according to what I imagine but sometimes it does work out better than or in a different way than I imagine which I guess I get to learn from either way I know for sure God has a better plan which makes it even more exciting.<br />
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Why am I blogging about it? It is because in the past I have experienced some things that have made me doubt the need to be more positive and optimistic. While I know that the world is not in black and white I must admit I have allowed the not so good experiences and even other people experiences influence and shake my value and believe system making me more complacent and indifferent in short "not bothered". The truth is, this attitude of indifference might work for other people but I don't believe it is for me. I felt maybe I was too naive and I should try to be maybe "liberal" and go with the flow like" if it happens it happens "and "if it does not it does not", either way life is good. To an extent I think its good to think this way because it kinda helps to deal with disappointments but it can also have an effect that I don't think its healthy.Yeah, in some situations I will perhaps be less expectant e.g. the turn outs for my birthday but I do believe this attitude is making me less positive and more negative. I get the gist of thinking this way, i.e."what will be will be" or "whatever happens happens" but this way makes me less hungry, less passionate, very lazy and also adopt a defeat attitude. I don't want to be "what will be will be," we are all masters of our destiny and I should be hungry to fight for what is right and approval. Anything can be "what will be will be" but if everyone felt that way the world will not be where it is today. Truth is "what will be will probably be" but not after we have fought the good fight and its pays off. <br />
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Cut to the chase, I am going back to my value and believe system going with the flow and whatever happens etc works for some people but for me I am not a go with the flow person, I am not whatever happens happens person, I am not what will be will be, I am not fair enough, I am not a bunch of cliches. I am a woman of faith that believes in the power of positive thinking and dreams because in life nothing is impossible. I am a woman that is grateful for life experiences and lessons but always chose to have a testimony at the end and appreciate it is not my doing nor my power. For me,I have chosen to make my value and believe system work for me if it is God that I believe so be it, if things don't happen the way I want I believe there is a lesson to be learnt and something better is around the corner no matter what my expectations are.<br />
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I challenge you to go back to the drawing board, access the bad, take the good and have fun with the ugly.<br />
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In the mean time... found this YT video, she is very bubbly alright.<br />
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Daughter of Her Kinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13153158836293987110noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5297258085201168083.post-23730898990185215602013-10-31T01:24:00.001+00:002013-10-31T01:27:24.373+00:00 CURRY NIGHT/BIRTHDAY DINNER YAY!!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Its been a while, I hope we are all well and blessed.<br />
Thanks for stopping by and checking on the blog.<br />
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I have been busy with many things amongst them was my bday.....YAY.<br />
I did say I will upload pics too.<br />
It started out alright we drove all the way to Birmingham thank God for journey mercies.<br />
Had some pedicure etc and off we went to get ready... my make-up courtesy of my sis who did an amazing job btw.<br />
After that, we bundled into the car and went to the lovely Akbar Restaurant which has a fantastic decor and excellent customer service and later some of us went to African Village and boy did I dance to afrobeats.. lol.<br />
I must say I expected more turn out but more than happy with closest friends who traveled far and wide.... muahh to you sweets.. x<br />
The pictures tell the story. I also baked my birthday cake.<br />
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Daughter of Her Kinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13153158836293987110noreply@blogger.com17tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5297258085201168083.post-53945917940249385182013-10-11T17:18:00.001+01:002013-10-13T00:40:47.138+01:00 When sharing your opinion is considered Negative<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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In general, I am not one to pour sand in people's garri but if something does not feel right or can be done better then I will try to give an opinion that is constructive or better still worthy.</div>
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Personally, the meaning of negativity is subjective to each individual and their personality. I am generally critical with myself more than others around me so when someone is critical with me I don't mind as long as I know is coming from a place of love and care. If it isn't I will know but it still does not take a hold on me because I don't allow it to. Instead, I channel it all into positive energy and I thank God for that ability.</div>
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The truth is,I read the comments (i left my own too) but I could understand when people said they didn't like something which was fine because we can't please everyone but to say they are hating I felt it was unnecessary.I hate to think each time we leave a comment it has to be something nice or pleasant etc. The honest truth is, it can't all be nice and it won't all be nice all the time.It is the ones that give a generous amount of criticism that actually help to develop the person's work and make it better. Someone will always spot the mistakes and discuss them, now it is the way they chose to say it that makes the difference but just because someone leaves a harsh comment does not mean they are negative perhaps it needed for that time to help you up.</div>
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Point is, not all comments are negative and not all negative comments come from a negative person. I believe in sifting through things, take the ones that you need and ditch the rest. There is no need to attack or not attack we are not enemies nah. If you felt someone was negative either you understand its their personality and clearly stay away from them or its not their personality confront them and they will explain themselves.If you can't confront them as it is via social media, just see it as a platform to tell your story. We need people that will help us to help ourselves through their comments. There is no need for attacking people personally or private life abeg just<b> take the good</b>, <b>assess the bad </b>and <b>have fun with the ugly</b>.</div>
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Is it easy to deal with it and move on. No, not in all cases but you are not the first to go through the situation and certainly wont be the last. Channel that energy into something positive and allow your inner ambition to rocket high. Your biggest critics will help you to sell out in the end cos they will talk about how well you have improved etc.</div>
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Daughter of Her Kinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13153158836293987110noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5297258085201168083.post-28235561393932838442013-10-09T00:30:00.000+01:002013-10-11T17:19:20.112+01:00 Still Championing my TWA!! YAY!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Check out my hair update.<br />
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August 2013<br />
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October 2013<br />
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My hair regime so far:</div>
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Loads of water on my hair mostly each day</div>
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Loads of oil like coconut,castor, almond etc and shea butter too.</div>
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I try to stretch my hair through twists out and cornrows.</div>
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So far am loving my hair and I think its super cool the way it changes my face each time.</div>
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Hope you had fun reading and gazing at my pics and appreciating God's beauty. Lol,am kidding.x</div>
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Thanks for visiting and reading.</div>
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Be Blessed and Stay Blessed.</div>
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God is Love*</div>
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Daughter of Her Kinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13153158836293987110noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5297258085201168083.post-46208661142456325302013-10-08T03:59:00.001+01:002013-10-08T03:59:36.356+01:00 Assumptions- Never underestimate its POWER.<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hello beautiful and blessed people,<br />
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I hope we are well and our loved ones are well too.<br />
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I appreciate the sneak peaks and comments on my last post.<br />
It does feel good to be back, although I am yet to update everyone regarding how my new year resolutions is going.<br />
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Back to the topic I aim to discuss.<br />
Well the thing is, a situation occurred sometime ago that I felt I needed to address but on addressing it turned out that maybe just maybe I was subconsciously ruled by the power of ASSUMPTIONS.<br />
You see as humans, I think its natural that we automatically assume certain things or assume more things than usual especially when there is lack of clarity and communication. While some of us have used past experience to master/combat the art of assumptions i.e. ability to clearly clarify things and be sure before jumping into conclusions, some of us however have not yet to mastered the art or we are just good at second guessing things.lol..<br />
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Most times, I like to be clear on things and not assume as much but sometimes the actions that someone portrays can also alter views and allow room for assumptions. However, the power of assumptions can only take over if I let IT. I say let it because we have the power to control the thoughts we feed into our system and the way we chose to see a situation or interpret an action.<br />
In some cases, the power of assumptions has caused alot of havoc, messed up alot of relationships and even destroyed what was once beautiful. Whether it is communication that is not strong enough or the ability to misinterpret things that is much stronger only the person in the situation is able to determine and obviously analyse the situation and make judgment.<br />
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This leads me to my recent story on assumption or should I say purposely led "assumption".<br />
Myself and a single friend of mine were catching up on gist and girly talk etc. In the mist of the convo, she mentioned she found a brother for me in church, I was like OK, (I am not a church brother type of person o)it just means I don't like the idea that church bros are better etc humans are still humans. Anyhoo,I recall saying ha am not interested, she said o he is igbo, shebi you like igbo boys. My response, well I used to cos my ex was igbo but now that am totally over him am open to all ethnicity(well some). She was like since when, besides the dude she mentioned I felt was not my type lol, am sorry we all have a type don't we? and his face always looked serious. Cut long story short, we laughed about it and ended there but was it?<br />
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It was about a week or so, it was our department turn to clean the church, I came around to clean the toilets and other communal areas. The igbo dude in question is in the choir and plays the keyboard, the choir were rehearsing when I came to clean,while familiar faces said hello,I went about doing my bits. We have never exchanged pleasantries before but that day for the first time he came to approach me and said hello and we talked for a bit sha.....<br />
From that day when dude saw me, he says hello and I found myself (ahem ahem looking forward to seeing him and having a massive grin on my face too) but I played it cool nah. I must say though, something didn't quite add up deep down.<br />
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Although, he wasn't my type but I liked his smile, I thought it was cute (have I told you I like a sweet smile on a dude? well now you know. I also like guys with BODY *coversface* when I say body I mean (forget it), renew mind pls. Ok,ok, I like them in nice hot thick body not fat though, no no just fine body which by the way the dude in question didn't have. However, I was subconsciously thinking to myself maybe if I get to know him sha I can overlook my vanity self. Funny thing was, during my small crush, Pastor preached on a topic and talked about "marrying a potential that beauty fades". I thought hmmm maybe this is for me. He might not be all that I secretly desire in terms of physical attributes but hey no harm in being friends nah.<br />
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Over the duration, we would talk, found out what we both do, what we both studied and where our families are based etc. He mentioned he went to Nigeria to visit but nothing else other than the family are well when I asked. So, no cue there that he is unavailable anyhoo he asked for my facebook name which I replied it would be impossible to find me. I took his instead but couldn't find him. The next couple of times we spoke we talked about the facebook thing and he proceeded to add me through mutual friends from church on Facebook.<br />
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As you do now, you look through the pics which I kinda felt nah brov, dude has got to be taken at least. I felt he was one of those Nigerian dudes that studied in the UK but have a potential gf, fiance or so back at home. When my friend (the lady that suggested the dude etc)approached the subject I said I don't think its gonna work and she kept on saying be optimistic etc but I had my doubts. Yawah gas, the same lady/friend that was playing match.com later told me he might have gone to Nigeria to get married.<br />
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True true true, dude had gone to Niaj and brought a wife back. All this time, me thought dude was kinda into me just based on the actions.I sorta mentioned it to him that all this time he didn't tell me he was getting married and he acted surprised or so etc.<br />
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All the same,the moral of the story is, I could have made a fool out of myself due to elements of assumptions. Things like these happen all the time and in all fairness I would have thought it was only normal to mention it that he is getting hooked but hey he didn't and I assumed/misread into his actions bearing in my mind a seed was sown from lady/friend(be careful what you allow people tell you and what you read meaning into).<br />
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Point am trying to make is, just because people act a certain way or do certain things should not give us the go ahead to assume.Although, in some instances it is blatantly obvious that 1+1= 2, I think its best to ask and be in the know. In some cases, some people do assume but have an open mind that it could go either way. Maybe the latter approach is more manageable, I dont know.<br />
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I will stop here.<br />
I have learnt from this and continue to learn.<br />
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Thank you for visiting and reading.<br />
Be Blessed and Stay Blessed.<br />
God is love.<br />
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Still championing my TWA, so far have been natural for 6months but did BIG CHOP 4months plus few days ago. I need to do an update of my recent hair.<br />
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Daughter of Her Kinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13153158836293987110noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5297258085201168083.post-68676783932556625922013-10-04T00:21:00.000+01:002013-10-04T00:49:19.176+01:00 Unbelievable/Typical<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hello Everyone,<br />
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I hope we are all blessed.<br />
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Its been ages since I last blogged or read/left a comment.<br />
I am just hoping I am not forgotten.<br />
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I have my excuses for being away for such a long time despite my commitment to changing my attitude and being more blogger friendly.<br />
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Warri was was?( as some accent in UK lol),I basically moved.<br />
Yep,I moved from my city sobs to my family city and that meant alot of packing stuff, I hired a van o.<br />
I am a typical hoarder I guess.<br />
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In the mist of the move etc, I have not had time to blog nor read blogs because my life was quite busy but it is a lot better and am glad that abit of normalcy is coming through bit by bit.<br />
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Its my BIRTHDAY MONTH... YAY ME.<br />
Excited WHOOP WHOOP... Am turning a quarter of century and am celebrating it in style, glitz, glamour and everything/everything lol. I am looking forward to it, thank you LORD. So far (in my vanity self), I have got the birthday dress which Mum said was nice, earrings(I might change my mind on that and still need to maybe buy new shoes/clutch bag and wristwatch.<br />
I plan to rock my TWA too.<br />
I will be posting pics too YESKE. lol.<br />
I also plan to bake my birthday cake.*just had that goey feeling* :)Yummy cakes.<br />
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Planning anything is sometimes a long ting jor but it gats to be done right?<br />
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I hope to catch up on the rest of the blog posts have missed and leave comments. Its been agessssssssss since have visited am so looking forward to catching up.<br />
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I hope you are well and thanks for the love. Muah*<br />
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P.S. I changed the template again because the other one was simply useless, I couldn't reply comments, I couldn't check comments etc. Hopefully this will be much better. x<br />
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Be blessed and stay blessed.</div>
Daughter of Her Kinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13153158836293987110noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5297258085201168083.post-10578988025555222262013-08-29T22:32:00.001+01:002013-08-29T22:32:23.822+01:00 He had a DREAM....!!!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hello Lovely people,<br />
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I hope we are good in the land of the living....<br />
I would like to share a little piece of gift, please read on.<br />
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Once upon a time,a child was born.<br />That child was born with hope but little did his parents know he had a massive future ahead.<br /><br />The child became a Boy, the boy became a Man and the man became a LEADER.<br />He had a dream, he was laughed at, ridiculed and spat on but he had a DREAM.<br /><br />With his dream, he would work with other amazing people that would change the world for good.<br />He HAD A DREAM...... and his DREAM became everyone's dream including his enemies. HE HAD A DREAM....<br /><br />This piece is dedicated to MARTIN LUTHER KING JNR...<br />Thank you SIR for walking in the destiny ordained for you.<br />Thank you that you helped every African American to stand TALL AND PROUD.<br />Thank you to all OUR FREEDOM FIGHTERS who fought with everything including their dignity, pride and shame.... THANK YOU.<br /><br />Don't let your dreams die...<br /><br />Piece by me..x<div>
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Thanks for reading and visiting. xxx</div>
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Daughter of Her Kinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13153158836293987110noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5297258085201168083.post-11545138898194714992013-08-11T23:28:00.001+01:002013-08-11T23:28:29.268+01:00 Update<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Hello Everyone,<br />
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Thanks for the love, comments and patience, much appreciated.<br />
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So what happened? Why the silence?<br />
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I admit I am not a regular blogger as much as I want to be, so I said to myself I will try to post as often as I can. Sometimes, I don't post anything because am not feeling what am writing or I have lost my trail of thoughts or in the middle of it and I give up because its not coming together the way I initially imagined.<br />
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In some cases, I don't feel like blogging and these days if am being honest, there is a disconnection with my blog and the blog family. I don't know what happened or why it is so but I read less and less blogs these days. It most likely a phase.<br />
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I think some of the factors that might have disconnected me from my blog:<br />
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1) Bored: I just get bored sometimes of reading in general, its just feels pointless.I find myself skim reading and getting to the end before giving myself a chance.<br />
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2) Sleeping hours: I tend to read blogs in the evenings but I go to bed early therefore I don't read as much or cant be bothered too.<br />
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3) Watching: I do more watching these days than reading. I just want to watch movies or listen to music.<br />
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4) Laptop issues: Yep for almost a month my lappy would just randomly shut down. I had to hand it over for repair.<br />
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5) Blogsville: I liked reading certain blogs that I enjoyed but each time I check on their post its like a month ago or two months ago and for some reason I think it just demotivated me.<br />
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6) Google playing up: It felt as though I couldn't access my blog. there would be times I want to update and something goes wrong and am trying to fix it but end up giving up.<br />
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7) Depression: Some of us may know I have been job hunting for a while and I must say I was not motivated at all to read anything and I think that where the whole watching movies just kinda took over.<br />
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8) Victory: I have been meaning to share a little testimony with you blogsville family. In June, I had some marketing/ promotional ideas that came to me. I took these ideas and pitched to a company. Initially, I didn't know what the outcome would be, but if anything I thought they would invite me for a meeting in their board room and I would elaborate more on the ideas. I was nervous, prayed and told only my sister who encouraged me, "what is the worst that can happen"?Exactly, they will say NO and thank you. I did pitch, they liked it, they offered me a job and I am grateful to GOD. I am encouraging someone if you have that creative idea GO FOR IT, "what is the worst that can happen?" Right?<br />
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Needless to say, work has been a major contributor to my schedule. I have also had weddings, visitors to host and my baking too.<br />
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I promise myself despite some of the jargons I have listed, I owe it to myself to do at least 2-3 posts plus a month if anything. I know some of my posts blesses someone so I shouldn't give it up or abandon my blog. I should also try to reconnect with blogsville. I know blogsville has helped me at some point in my life when I was really down. Blogsville family were one of the things that kept me going.<br />
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In the past, I have hated when people created blogs, leave it and not come back to it for weeks, months and years. I always told myself I won't be such person and I hate to think am now doing what I hated so please don't think I don't appreciate the sneak peak and every now then check ups, I really do and I thank you for your continuous love and support.<br />
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Am home for my Mum's birthday. I baked her a delicious coconut cake which she liked alot.Yay.<br />
I am taking her shopping and we are having lunch/dinner afterwards.<br />
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I WILL RECONNECT AGAIN. LOL.<br />
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Stay blessed people. xoxox and Thanks for reading/visiting.</div>
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