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There are many dimensions to marriage and many aspects to understand. I will try to discuss some of the aspects I understand.
Based on my Understanding:
I think Dad left because a) He did not recognise Mum was his help mate, he might have felt she was good in many areas but he did not RECOGNISE or ACKNOWLEDGE it. This is because if he did, He would appreciate her more and see her worth and even go on to enjoy the more and more goodness he left behind.(he is paying for it NOW). Proverbs 22 vs 18 "He who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favour from the LORD".
b) He did not UNITE and CLEAVE with her if he did he would always try to make things work.
c)He did not become ONE FLESH with her if he did he would not have allowed any separation to occur.
Obviously there many other unseen factors but I felt the foundation was not RIGHT from the beginning (i.e. his intentions/motives for marrying Mum).
We really need to take our time when deciding who to spend the rest of our lives with, marriage is a big deal and no matter how careful we are cos MUM was (to an extent, I have come to learn), we could still end up being married to the wrong person even worse married to the right person but have the worse marriage (Yes, it happens one can marry the one, one is convicted of and one can still have a CRAP marriage, how??, will discuss next time). God is our one and only leader and he can and still does help support the vision of MARRIAGE.
Please stay tuned for my upcoming posts.
Please you are welcome to share ideas, thought and will learn together. NO NEGATIVE/ PERSONAL ATTACK PLS, this not a platform to breed any form of hateful comment.
God is love, love yourself and others.
There are many dimensions to marriage and many aspects to understand. I will try to discuss some of the aspects I understand.
Based on my Understanding:
I think Dad left because a) He did not recognise Mum was his help mate, he might have felt she was good in many areas but he did not RECOGNISE or ACKNOWLEDGE it. This is because if he did, He would appreciate her more and see her worth and even go on to enjoy the more and more goodness he left behind.(he is paying for it NOW). Proverbs 22 vs 18 "He who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favour from the LORD".
b) He did not UNITE and CLEAVE with her if he did he would always try to make things work.
c)He did not become ONE FLESH with her if he did he would not have allowed any separation to occur.
Obviously there many other unseen factors but I felt the foundation was not RIGHT from the beginning (i.e. his intentions/motives for marrying Mum).
We really need to take our time when deciding who to spend the rest of our lives with, marriage is a big deal and no matter how careful we are cos MUM was (to an extent, I have come to learn), we could still end up being married to the wrong person even worse married to the right person but have the worse marriage (Yes, it happens one can marry the one, one is convicted of and one can still have a CRAP marriage, how??, will discuss next time). God is our one and only leader and he can and still does help support the vision of MARRIAGE.
Please stay tuned for my upcoming posts.
Please you are welcome to share ideas, thought and will learn together. NO NEGATIVE/ PERSONAL ATTACK PLS, this not a platform to breed any form of hateful comment.
God is love, love yourself and others.
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